Monday, June 28, 2010

Action vs. Self-Delusion by Jim Rohn


Knowledge fueled by emotion equals action. Action is the ingredient that ensures results. Only action can cause reaction. Further, only positive action can cause positive reaction.
Action. The whole world loves to watch those who make things happen, and it rewards them for causing waves of productive enterprise.
I stress this because today I see many people who are really sold on affirmations. And yet there is a famous saying that "faith without action serves no useful purpose." How true!
I have nothing against affirmations as a tool to create action. Repeated to reinforce a disciplined plan, affirmations can help create wonderful results.
But there is also a very thin line between faith and folly. You see, affirmations without action can be the beginnings of self-delusion. And for your well-being, there is little worse than self-delusion.
The man who dreams of wealth, and yet walks daily toward certain financial disaster, and the woman who wishes for happiness, and yet thinks thoughts and commits acts that lead her toward certain despair, are both victims of the false hope that affirmations without action can manufacture. Why? Because words soothe and, like a narcotic, they lull us into a state of complacency. Remember this: To make progress, you must actually get started!
The key is to take a step today. Whatever the project, start today. Start clearing out a drawer of your newly organized desk-today. Start setting your first goal-today. Start listening to motivational programs-today. Start a sensible weight-reduction plan-today. Start calling on one tough customer a day-today. Start putting money in your new "investment for fortune" account-today. Write a long-overdue letter-today. Anyone can! Even an uninspired person can start reading inspiring books.
Get some momentum going on your new commitment for the good life. See how many activities you can pile on your new commitment to the better life. Go all out! Break away from the downward pull of gravity. Start your thrusters going. Prove to yourself that the waiting is over and the hoping is past, that faith and action have now taken charge.
It's a new day, a new beginning for your new life. With discipline, you will be amazed at how much progress you'll be able to make. What have you got to lose except the guilt and fear of the past?
Now, I offer you this challenge: See how many things you can start and continue in this, the first day of your new beginning.
 Have a great day!!!  ~Mandi

Thursday, June 24, 2010

A Little about me.....

I'm married to a wonderful man for almost 11 yrs. We have 2 wonderful kids. We have been a part of our team for several years. I have been home with my kids for over 10 years now, I really wanted to do something to help out my husband.. I wanted to be able to work from home, pay off our debt and have true financial security. I really didn't think I could find a legitimate way to do that, however, I'm happy to say that I have with this team. I am so proud to be part of something that truly helps families in so many ways.

~Mandi 

Words of Wisdon...

I love everything she says. I also know that we can learn a lot from our elders.

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio

“To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I’ve ever written.

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2.
When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3.
Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4.
Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and
parents will. Stay in touch.
5.
Pay off your credit cards every month.
6.
You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7.
Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8.
It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9.
Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10.
When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.{amen!!!]
11.
Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12.
It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13.
Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14.
If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15.
Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16.
Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17.
Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
18.
Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
19.
It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else
20.
When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21.
Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t   save  it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22.
Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23.
Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24.
The most important sex organ is the brain.
25.
No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26.
Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will this matter?’
27.
Always choose life.
28.
Forgive everyone everything.
29.
What other people think of you is none of your business.
30.
Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31.
However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32.
Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33.
Believe in miracles.
34.
God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
35.
Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36.
Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
37.
Your children get only one childhood.
38.
All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39.
Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40.
If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d
grab ours back.
41.
Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42.
The best is yet to come…
43.
No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44.
Yield.
45.
Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift